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Shane Battier Opens Up About Depression After Retirement: “I Pushed My Wife Away, I Pushed My Kids Away”

by Len Werle
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For Shane Battier, basketball was everything. A two-time NBA champion and one of the league’s most respected role players, Battier thrived in the competitive environment of the NBA. But when his career ended in 2014, he found himself lost, struggling with depression that nearly tore his family apart.

Battier’s decline started during his final season with the Miami Heat, when head coach Erik Spoelstra began benching him in crunch time. The realization that his playing days were coming to an end hit him hard.

“Nothing was worse to me than sitting in crunch time,” Battier admitted. “That was my identity. It hurt me to my core. That’s when I knew I was done.”

After Miami’s loss to the San Antonio Spurs in the 2014 NBA Finals, Battier retired and accepted a job as a college basketball analyst for ESPN. However, the transition was far from smooth.

“I shut people out,” Battier revealed. “I was probably battling depression. I didn’t know what depression was. I never had this feeling before. But feeling very isolated. I didn’t feel anyone understood what I was going through.”

Battier’s emotional struggles affected his relationships, particularly with his wife and children.

“I pushed my wife away, I pushed my kids away. And I was just a jerk,” he admitted. “I wasn’t doing destructive things, like drinking every night. But I was emotionally unavailable. And I was hurt, and I was pissed off.”

His inability to find purpose outside of basketball led to cynicism and frustration, making it difficult for him to connect with loved ones. The once mentally sharp and composed player found himself spiraling, unsure of how to move forward.

Battier eventually quit ESPN in 2015, realizing that broadcasting wasn’t fulfilling him. A year later, he found a new role with the Miami Heat as Director of Basketball Development and Analytics, allowing him to be part of a team again. The shift helped him rediscover his passion, and slowly, he began to heal.

In a surprising move, Battier resigned from his Heat position last year and relocated his family to Charlotte, opting for a non-basketball role as a strategic assistant to Heat CEO Nick Arison. This decision wasn’t driven by negativity but rather by a desire to explore new opportunities and embrace life beyond basketball.

Today, Battier is in a better place, but his experience serves as a cautionary tale for others facing similar struggles.

“There is so much in life to experience and try,” he said, reflecting on his journey. “I just had to find my way.”

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